Don’t know what to get your husband?
Between laundry, work, dinner, and all the little chaos of everyday life, intimacy can slip fast in a marriage. I get it, I’ve lived it. Sometimes I felt like I was “doing all the things” but not really connecting with my husband in the way that mattered most to him. That’s why we did something amazing… we surveyed over 3,000 husbands to find out exactly what they want most from their wives. The results were simple, but so eye opening.
Husbands don’t want another gadget, another tie, or more socks. What they crave most is emotional and physical connection, appreciation, playful fun, and desire!
The survey revealed three top desires that nearly every husband shared:
- They want their wife to initiate love making
- They want more romantic connection and passion in the marriage
- They want more fun, flirting, and playful intimacy
Knowing this changed everything for me. I realized that giving a thoughtful gift isn’t just about something material… it’s about enhancing the way you show love, desire, and connection. So I put together a list of the top 5 intimate gifts that do exactly that, gifts that nurture your relationship while making your husband feel seen, appreciated, and deeply desired.
1. The Ultimate Couples Intimate Collection
Every husband wants to feel desired. It’s not about just sex, it’s about feeling like the man you choose every single day! The Couples Intimacy Collection is designed to help you both explore BETTER intimate moments together, creating emotional closeness and physical connection at the same time. We hand picked everything in the box! Everything in it has a 4.8 star review or higher!
This collection includes:
- Vibrating Ring for Her Pleasure, which is more than just a fun toy, it is a marriage AID, and encourages you to communicate about each other’s pleasure and creates playful curiosity in the bedroom. ONLY used TOGETHER!
- Massage Cream That’s Also a Lubricant, BEST PRODUCT EVER… which sets the stage for intimacy after a long day. A massage can make him feel relaxed, appreciated, and connected to you emotionally before it ever turns physical.
Husbands crave emotional and physical connection because it validates their role in the marriage. When you give attention to his pleasure, he feels seen and loved, which increases his confidence and deepens his desire to connect with you emotionally. This collection isn’t just toys, it’s an invitation to share intimacy intentionally, turning everyday connection into something special. The best intimacy box ever is found HERE!
2. The Romance & SEXY Coupon Book(s) 🔥
Husbands need to feel appreciated in both big gestures and small, everyday ways. That’s where the Romance & SEXY Coupon Books come in. Each coupon is a small promise that says, “I see you, I value you, and I want to make you feel loved.”
The coupons range from sweet gestures like a surprise date night, taking over a chore he dislikes, or giving a back rub, to more intimate surprises designed to spark playfulness and anticipation. The magic is that these small acts consistently remind him that he is valued, chosen, AND desired.
Men thrive on feeling appreciated. When a husband feels recognized for his efforts, it motivates him to invest back into the marriage. The coupon book taps into this desire by creating moments of connection, romance, and fun, helping him feel admired while also giving you playful ways to remind him you want him. Grab the coupons HERE!
3. Bedroom Position Card Deck
Even couples who are connected emotionally can hit a rut in the bedroom. The non-graphic card deck offers a fun, playful approach to intimacy. It’s not just a set of positions, it’s a tool for exploring new ways to connect while removing the pressure!
Husbands often crave spontaneity and excitement in intimacy. When we try new things together, it creates a sense of adventure and playfulness that strengthens the marriage. This card deck helps couples laugh, flirt, and connect physically, which also naturally deepens emotional intimacy.
Using the card deck regularly reminds a husband that intimate times with you can be both fun and meaningful, fulfilling his need for connection, desire, and playful energy in the relationship. This gift is really for the both of you! Win Win!
4. Massage Cream That’s Also a Lubricant!
After a long day, men want to feel relaxed, cared for, and desired. A massage does more than relieve tension, it communicates attention and affection. When you use a cream that doubles as a lubricant, it creates a seamless transition from emotional relaxation to intimate connection.
Husbands crave touch because it helps them feel grounded and connected. Physical touch is a powerful way to communicate appreciation and desire without words. A soothing massage signals, “I see you, I value you, I want you,” while naturally fostering intimacy.
This gift enhances marriage because it addresses both emotional and physical needssimultaneously. When a husband feels relaxed, desired, and appreciated, it improves not just sex but also everyday interactions, creating a cycle of positive connection.
This intimate cream is organic and it smells AMAZING! You can pick from two different scents or just get both!
Grab the BEST massage cream/lubricant HERE!
5. Scratch Cards for Initiation
Survey says… the number one thing husbands want is for their wife to initiate love making. This might sound simple, but it’s powerful. Men CRAVE to feel chosen and desired, and when you take the lead, it speaks directly to their hearts.
The Scratch Cards for Initiation make this fun, flirty, and easy. Each card prompts you to initiate intimacy in a playful way, creating anticipation, excitement, and connection. This gift transforms initiation from a potentially awkward step into a superpower in your marriage.
Initiation matters because it communicates: “I desire you, I want you, I’m thinking of you.” Husbands feel deeply validated when their spouse steps into this role. It makes them feel admired and desired, and that feeling spills into every area of the marriage. Playfulness, flirtation, and intentional initiation make husbands feel confident, passionate, and emotionally connected, which strengthens the overall bond. Grab the cards HERE!
Why He Will LOVE these gift ideas:
These five gifts work because they address the core things husbands want most:
- Desire: They want to feel chosen, wanted, and admired
- Connection: Emotional and physical intimacy strengthen the relationship
- Playfulness: Fun, flirting, and spontaneity bring joy and spark
- Appreciation: Small gestures and thoughtful gifts remind them they are seen
- Passion: Acts that ignite romance deepen the marriage bond
When you give a gift that intentionally meets these needs, you are saying: “I see you, I love you, and I want you.” That simple message can transform the way your husband shows up in the marriage. It builds confidence, emotional security, and desire.
Ladies, husbands don’t want another gadget, they want YOU! your attention, your desire, and your intentional love. These top 5 gifts are literally tools to create connection, spark passion, and make your husband feel truly seen and desired.
From the Couples Intimacy Collection to the Scratch Cards for Initiation, each gift helps you step into your superpower in the marriage: initiating, appreciating, and fostering connection. When husbands feel chosen and desired, every area of your marriage improves, your communication deepens, playfulness returns, and intimacy grows in ways you may have forgotten were possible.
Love = TIME. These gifts give of your energy, your time and your intention. That is what they really want!
Give a gift that strengthens your marriage. Give a gift that makes your husband feel like the man you fell in love with all over again.
UandI App
Check out the amazing UandI App to transform your relationship!
Here’s a sneak peek at what’s included:
- Daily Challenges – Emotional and intimate challenges to keep your connection strong.
- Date Night Challenges and Adventures – Ideas and tips for unforgettable date nights.
- Quizzes – Fun ways to learn more about each other.
- Live Polls – Engage in real-time with your spouse.
- Ask an Expert – Get relationship advice from professionals.
- Interactive Games – Including “How Well Do You Know Your Spouse?” and non-graphic sex position games.
- Intimate Conversations – Foster deep, meaningful conversations.
- Secure Chat Feature – A private space for just the two of you.
- Harmony Home – Organize and sync your household chores and schedules.
FREE to Download and Get Started!
We believe this app can be a game-changer for your marriage, helping you build stronger emotional intimacy, stay organized, and even add some extra spice to your relationship. It’s totally free to download, so there’s no reason not to give it a try today!
For more information, visit uandiapp.com and get started on the journey to a more connected, exciting marriage.
We can’t wait to hear how the U&I app helps you and your spouse create the marriage you’ve always dreamed of. Here’s to stronger bonds, more fun, and lots of love!
AMAZING Products To Transform Your Intimacy
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